In the end, I don’t know what will happen with us and if we have a future because we live very far away from each other – but two interesting things happened while dating an Indian man for the second time since moving to Bangalore that have really made me stop and think … First, it was great to realise that not all Indian men are afraid to be with a white, divorced women for fear of what their parents will say.Obviously I haven’t dated much in India, two men isn’t enough to make a truly convincing case on the subject, so my experience level is low.Situations do change after marriage and through time.To many Westerners, the statement “I love you” often stands for a long-term commitment.The People India is one of the most diverse countries in the world.It is a sophisticated, modern, industrial leader that is home to many primitive tribes and millions of poor people. The caste system limits social mobility (600,000 people belong to the lowest caste).The essay will be refined further in future depending upon any new findings and conclusions that may emerge. Hinduism, unlike some other faiths, does not regard sexual desire as evil or impure.Still it is a puritanical faith, because it puts heavy emphasis upon virtuous living and the importance of purity and austerity.
The problem with Hinduism is that you can argue from every angle and support different standpoints, depending upon how you may view them.
Originally based on material contained in the "Put Your Best Foot Forward" series of books by Mary Murray Bosrock.
Through the last fifteen years of being involved in the Indian community and interacting with many non-Indian, Western,and white women who struggle with relationships and commitments with their Indian boyfriends, I share the top three mistakes that most of these women make while trying to overcome the challenges of acceptance from their Indian boyfriend or to-be's family.
This was the point when men could get a good look at the available women since the dance usually lasted for a couple days.
As the Crane dance went on usually a young man would see a woman that did strike his fancy.