Identifying a Cougar Attracting an Older Woman Community Q&A “Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s (or older) who date significantly younger men, generally at a 10-year age gap or more.
Pop culture paints the cougar as predatory and pathetically desperate, but women have recently begun fighting the stereotype: real cougars, they argue, are confident, successful, single women over the age of 40, who — tired of unromantic and narrow-minded men their own age — date younger, more active and more adventurous men.
If you're a fearless cougar hunter please go ahead and take your chances by approaching the next hot older woman you see in public.
So go find them, and when you do, be confident, be cool and remember the reason most cougars are looking for a younger man is because they're bored of the slipper wearing, couch potato guys of their own age. Also, it might be hard on your girlfriend if she senses your reluctance/uncertainty. All of my friends tell me I'm too easy and that's why guys never call me back. Even if you are nervous and say something dumb, she’ll be more forgiving than younger women, because she knows how difficult it is for a man to approach a woman he’s interested in. They look great — and they usually have sexy six-packs, stamina, and endurance. You should be proud to introduce your girlfriend as your girlfriend to both friends and family. What is it that you are offering that draws them in the first place? And do I need to say that two fingers have other uses aside from measuring shots? If a cougar is interested, you just need to start a conversation.One these two avenues to snag a cougar, the most preferred is the bar method as you have the pleasure of meeting your cougar in person.Online photos can be deceiving so use caution when choosing a woman from an online dating site.